All of us are social beings. Some more than others, none the less we all are.
Every social outing we attend has the Big 4; Food, drink, ambience & conversation. If you introspect a little you will slowly realize that you always imagined every outing to be different but each one of them was just a repetition of the big 4-only the people, place, situation & possibly occasion changed.
Let’s admit it; we keep doing this on repeat hoping for more, for new, for something. What we really want is to find our-selves. But instead of looking for it in here, we are looking for it every -where else.
More significantly, we believe that a partner is the answer- the ultimate salvation. There is nothing wrong in desiring a special someone in your life or for that matter desiring anything
BUT, take a moment to think about it, unless you find YOUR-SELF, “the people in your life will change, but the pattern will remain” and there you’re off again trying to find the ideal someone,